"We delight in the beauty of the butterfly,
but rarely admit the changes it has gone through to achieve that beauty.''
- Maya Angelou
The day we realize that life isn't everything we
wish it were is the day we start to find the path to maneuver through and still
find joy. It takes some longer than others to make this wise discovery
and unfortunately, some never quite get there. I know I've not got it all
under my feet but I'm thankful I'm on the path to finding more joy each day.
We all go through hardship, trials,
misunderstanding and struggle with circumstances in our lives that are beyond
our control. Some are more painful than others as they reach closer to
our hearts while others just create frustration and aggravation. They all
affect us in some way though and none of it is pleasant to go through.
The ones I want to talk about however are the deep dark cocoons that we
find ourselves in...the ones that heartache is present and we struggle trying
to find the truths in the midst of our pain. We struggle through trying
to hear the voice of God and the direction He wants for us.
The thing I find interesting about the butterfly is
that "he" was created to do a little bit of his life as one type of
being and then to go into a place of darkness for a period of time. The
butterfly spends the first part of life as a caterpillar eating and sleeping
until it reaches a time where things begin to change and he decides to cocoon
himself into darkness at which point things start to take place and change begins.
Now, I don't know about you but I don't think I'd make a very good
caterpillar. I don't necessarily like change and I don't like the
thought of living in the dark. I like to be in control of my
circumstances and if I couldn't see the end outcome, I wouldn't be the one to
voluntarily encapsulate myself hoping that I was going to turn into something
beautiful. So, like you, things happen in life and although we don't like
it, we unwillingly enter into darkness because there is more that we can become and the
process begins.
What happens to each of us in the time of darkness
is different and we each have different things we go through in learning,
sharpening, feeling and experiencing so that we can become more of what we were
created to be. During these times it is pertinent to remember that there
is more to come. We need to do what we must during this process as
painful or frustrating as it may be, in order to survive and eventually break
free of our cocoon so we can become more. Not because we want to but
because in order to survive, we have to. In your darkness, don't forget to pack hope, praise and bit of joy into the cocoon with you!
''There's more to come: We continue to shout our praise even when we're hemmed with troubles, because we know how troubles can develop passionate patience in us, and how that patience in turn forges the tempered steel of virtue, keeping us alert for whatever God will do next. In alert expectancy such as this, we're never left feeling shortchanged. Quite the contrary-we can't round up enough containers to hold everything God generously pours into our lives through the Holy Spirit!'' Romans 5:3-5 MSG
Blessings!
Missy
Butterfly Image courtesy of Ana Cole: https://www.etsy.com/shop/SolhfulPhotography
Excellent post Missy! It's good to remember that there is more to come! Thanks for the reminder :) love and hugs. -Maggie
ReplyDeleteBeautifully written, and a wonderful reminder!! Thanks for writing this beautiful piece, Missy!
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